Birth date: Jan 4, 1969 Death date: Dec 2, 2015
Brenda and I went to IUP together. I remember going out with her many a night. She was my roommate when I moved to royersford pa and then in norristown. She was a great person who always had a smile on. Rest in peace Brenda until we meet again.
Brenda and i were roommates for a couple of years. She was so sweet and thoughtful.
She used to slip sweet little notes under my door to let me know she wanted to play cards. She always was so thoughtful.
USN NDT LTDR JOSEPH PUCHALSKI
So Sorry for your loss. I spent an evening with Brenda in OC in August when she was visiting. We went to Fager's Island and had a great time. I will you Brenda and may you rest in peace.
Babbi
I Met Brenda In The 80's ,We Worked Together For A Short time But Remained Friends Afterwards , We Would Go Out For Drinks And To Listen To Bands ,Have Lunch Together Or A Starbucks Coffee , One Of Brenda's Favorite Things To Do Was Go Walking On Trails , We Went To Several Differant Trails , She Was A Very Active person & Took Pride In Herself , Her Family & Her Friends . Brenda Was The Most Genuine , Sweetest Loving Friend . She Was Very Soft Spoken And Very Good Listener ! She Spoke The Truth & NEVER Criticized . Brenda Set Goals For Herself And She Accomplished Them . I Am Very Proud & Grateful She Was Part Of My Life For So Long , I Will Miss Her Dearly And We Will See Each Other Again !!!! R.I. P. Brenda .
I had the pleasure of working with Brenda for several years and she would come and go into my work life...but we kind of stayed connected via texting and facebook chatting...we "got" each other...what a wonderful listener and friend. You could always count on her to tell it like is. This is one of those times when I have to say, I have no words. I am truly sorry for your loss...Brenda spoke with such love for her Mom...many hearts are broken and I hope Brenda knows how much she was loved.
I met Brenda in 1996 or 97 at IUP. We connected right away because we were both "non-traditional" college students. We had several classes together, but the class I remember most was our Latin class. As hard as we tried, we both struggled through it, but we always made time to check out the cute guys and make plans to go uptown for a drink or two. We put so many quarters in jukeboxes at the Coney and Culpeppers in Indiana, Pa. She always had the best taste in music and throughout the years, when certain songs come on the radio, I've always thought of her.
We were polar opposites. She was serious and quiet. I was goofy and loud. She was so truthful with me. I remember the time she told me that I needed to get rid of the chip on my shoulders, it took me years to do it, but I did. We went to parties together and shared many, many secrets that I would only trust to her!! She had this white LeBaron convertible that she was so proud of! I loved cruising with her in it.
As time went by, we lost contact and then found each other again on Facebook. I looked forward to her Christmas cards every year. I love her handwriting! I have so, so many great memories of her and I really wanted to see her again. I cannot even believe she is gone. It's hard to write about her in the past tense. She will always be in my heart and in my fondest of memories!! Rest in Peace my sweet friend. There's a hole in my heart that will never be filled. I guess I took for granted that you would always be there. But, I'm gonna believe I will see you again in heaven...
