Birth date: Jan 9, 1955 Death date: Apr 28, 2020
Gary Stanley Lebiedzinski, of Maple Shade, NJ, passed away on April 28, 2020. He was 65 years old. Gary is survived by his wife, Pam Jeanne Lebiedzinski. His sister Claudia Doreen Guglietta and her spouse Domenic Guglietta. He was Read Obituary
Uncle Gary was so generous with his time. He spent countless days and nights helping us out with our Maple Shade house, including an entire summer adding a bathroom. He would accept nothing in return. He offered up so many pieces of advice... usually to Matt. My two favorites are, "Happy wife. Happy life," and, "Yes, Dear." Uncle Gary was my favorite person to annoy. When we were little, he would give us the "chicken eye" and when we got older, there was something about his tone (loving disapproval?) that I loved to hear. I loved the look of joy on his face when he saw my kids. Every time I saw him, he would remind me to, "Enjoy them while they're young." He will forever be in our hearts.
I knew Gary all throughout High School. He was always nice to everyone. Always was a good friend to all. Always had a smile on his face. The world is just a little bit colder without him. - John P
I have many years of memories of Gary since I graduated with him and he married, my sister Pam. He loved his family and enjoyed spending time with them. He was like a mother hen to his children when they were growing up, especially when they were sick.
He was thrilled with his grandchildren, Lyric and Lacey and couldn't wait until he could see them. He prepared for their visits getting special toys for them when they arrived. He was so happy to have the time to spend with them. He was so pleased when Frankie Jeanne was born and even in his weakest moments delighted in seeing her.
He was extremely generous, financially and with his time. He often helped his nieces and nephews with home improvements and would not accept any compensation for it. He was quick to help but not quick to ask for help.
He made it possible for his mother-in-law to stay in her own home which was perilous to his own health and stayed with her until he no longer could. He always came home with treats for her and they often dined out together.
He was very appreciative of any acts of kindness and outwardly expressed his love to those around. I will miss not being together for holidays, special occasions or dining out. I regret that I never did express the appreciation he so deserved.
Kathy and I were so sad to hear of Gary's passing. We had been praying often for his recovery. Every time I see the bookcase he made for our church library my heart is warmed for two reasons. First, he did a beautiful job on the bookcase and second was what he said about the little mistake he made with the router on the left side where he routed a cross. the mistake uncorrected and told me his reason. He said something like, it is a reminder that he make mistakes and only God is perfect. The many years he served on our Board of trustees were such a help. I will remember him with warmth in my heart as long as I live. Pastor Bob and Kathy Spicer
