Birth date: Feb 2, 1948 Death date: May 16, 2017
Patricia Carol Stetler (nee Hartman) passed away on May 16, 2017. Born in Trenton, NJ, Patricia was 69 years old. Patricia was the beloved wife of the late Paul Stetler. Loving Sister-In-Law of Helen Hartman, Richard (Susan), Glen Read Obituary
Pat, what can I say. Well much but to much pain to do so. However, she was a colleague of mine at CWA Local 1033. She had my back on everything. She talk me mostly everything I know about my job and I perfect it because of her. For the past five years Pat has had me under her wing. And now I'm gonna miss her much because she has flown away. She meant more to me than just a co-worker. She was my friend...she sort of adopted me as her chocolate daughter....not in her words but mine...lol....Pat looked out for let in many ways and I looked out for her. I don't know how others are taking it, but I'm gonna miss the hell out her. Today, May 22nd I had to go in her office and complete an assignment as far as updating Robotic Calls for members of Local. That of which she taught me how to do. Sometimes she would be all over the place teaching but I take great notes and sort of mastered it...lol...but point is I had to sit in her chair, log on to her name id, use her password to do this, touch her mouse-keyboard, etc. What takes me 5 to 7 minutes to do, took me 38 minutes because I was stuck in her chair in a daze, tears rolling down my face knowing she will never sit there or perform duties as such again. She spoke all the time about her nephew Stan and Sarah/the niece's and nephews and her favorite male young group was One Direction...she loved those guys...oh she loved them so. She also loved and spoke about her Paul all the time...she missed him so. As I will miss her. Pat always told me she loved me and I knew she meant it. I meant it when I said it back too. I know this was long but she meant a lot to me with all love and support. Pat, hun, as you would say::cry:😢😢 you are at peace now. You suffer no more. No more unpleasant surgeries or dreadful uncomfortable days of dialysis. No more worries hun. I love her so much, many wouldn't innerstand. It was not easy to write this as I cried most of the time. Rest easy hun and be at peace with your beloved husband Paul. Gone but never will be forgotten.
Jeanette Heads
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Maurice and Zakai give there love as well.
Patty was always the sweetest person while getting her treatment
She would text me and with all her suffering always stayed positive
And hopeful Rest in Peace with your family that has gone before you
Love Maggie and Jim
I have known Pat for 34 years. We will always keep her in our hearts. She was a great wife to Paul and one of my closest friends. We were more like sisters. We had so many good times together and shared many things together good times and bad we were together. Love Irene and Dave
