Birth date: Mar 2, 1961 Death date: Aug 30, 2023
Rebecca (Becky) Arlene Occeña Ramirez of Cinnaminson, passed away on August 30, 2023, at the age of 62, with family by her side at the Samaritan Center in Voorhees, NJ. She was born in Davao City, Philippines in 1961 to Samuel Oc Read Obituary
BECKY (REBECCA OCCENA RAMIREZ) A EULOGY 9/4/23
For those of us at UPMASA (University of the Philippines Medical Alumni Society in America) Delaware Valley Chapter, Becky was easy to love.
From the beginning she was spry, engaging. generous and eager to participate. Her home was always open to us, unhesitatingly offered as a venue for our meetings. An excellent cook and baker, Becky treated us not only to the warmth of her home but to her delightful culinary creations. Together with Buddy ( Carlo Ramirez also Class 85) , we were blessed with an up and coming power couple destined to be the forefront of our chapter’s next generation of leaders.
We were shocked by the sudden news of her impending death, the culmination of her battle with a chronic illness that turned south quickly in the past few weeks. Becky was a very private person, we learned, and she had no desire to burden us with news of her condition, instead, she was determined to go at it alone, with Buddy. She was even more determined to ensure that we thought of her- even in her last days- at her engaging best, and not one fractured by illness.
Those of us who knew her and loved her are left with the paradox of nursing the wish to have been able to provide her support on one hand or be accepting of her wishes on the other, leaving us wondering what could have been, but then thankful that for a time, we shared simple but joyful moments. A lively conversation, a forever smile, a memorable dish, laughter in her home, set now against the knowledge of her resilience and courage to the end.
We tend to a bittersweet longing for our genuine Becky, her unforgettable smile now gone from our present but her laughter forever present in our hearts.
Becky, May God speed you into His arms.
Miguel L. de Leon, MD
Past President
UPMASA Delaware Valley Chapter
She had been a charming lady who made her friends very comfortable. We will miss her very much. Young & Yoogoo Kang
I know you for your kindness, gentleness and beautiful personality. Truly privileged to have known you in UPD. Am sad to hear of your passing and I extend my deepest condolences to your family. Rest in peace Beautiful Becky. You will be dearly missed. - from Tina Danac
Will always remember you for your infectious laughter, radiant disposition, and your love for family. So thankful that I got to see you again on 2 trips this past year and make new memories after sooo long. I wish there was more time to make up for lost time but I will find comfort in knowing that you are in the loving arms of our Creator. Love you so much tita Becky, rest in paradise. Sending my deepest thoughts and prayers of comfort for Tito Buddy, Miggy, and the rest of the family. 🤍
I think what I'll remember most about Tita Becky is her infectious laughter, one that you can always hear from across the room and identify. Among the notable memories I have of her are probably all the books she sent us over the years (my love of The Chronicles of Narnia could be because of her) and the hot pink bag she set aside for me specifically because according to her, it was "so me" (it was more "child me" but it was very thoughtful of her and I appreciate that a lot).
I'm thankful that I was able to spend time with her on two different trips this year as it almost made up for all the time lost by living in different countries. I will definitely miss hearing Tita Becky's laughter whenever there is a family gathering. May our family find comfort during this time, especially Tito Buddy and Miggy, and I am sending all my love to everyone.
Condolences, Buddy and Miggy. Becky will always be remembered with fondness. Surely, she will be with us in spirit during our class reunions. Take care.
Rest In Peace, dear friend Becky. May Perpetual Light Shine upon you. May our Lord grant you eternal rest.
Condolence Buddy, Miggy and family.
Daisy and Manny
Tita Becky’s love for travel made her the best guide. When our family visited their home in 2011, she and Tito Buddy took the time to bring us around the East Coast. She always knew the best places to eat and take photos. I remember her excellent cooking and her infectious laughter filling their home. Even more fun was going around their neighborhood with her. We had a shared love for finding deals, and tita would always be happy to take us around their neighborhood and accompany us to our favorite “GS.”
Even though they lived far away, Tita Becky was a thoughtful aunt to us cousins. As a teenager, I remember sorting through boxes each year, excited to find what gift she'd sent. Tita would always think of us and pick out things she thought we’d like— each with a handwritten label she’d placed herself. I still have many of them today, and they will always remind me of tita, her zest for life, and her generosity. We will miss Tita Becky very dearly.
