Birth date: Mar 10, 1939 Death date: Oct 23, 2021
Dr. Robert F. Brill, beloved husband, father, and grandfather, peacefully passed away on Oct 23, 2021, surrounded by his family. Born on March 10, 1939 in Utica, NY, he grew up the second of four children. His formative years wer Read Obituary
Dr Brill (Bob) was a major influence on my life for 20 years while I was dating/married to his daughter. When I initially met him, I had instant respect - appreciating the fact that as an Orthopedic surgeon he could dislocate joints as easily as relocating them and the fact I was dating his daughter at the time.
I learned a great deal from Bob, mostly by just observing him. He had the quickest wit of anyone I knew, but he was mostly the silent type. When he had a one-liner response it was a belly-laugh guaranteed. Probably the most influential lesson I learned from Bob was to remain calm. That was not my nature at the time I met him, but keeping a level head has served me well in life and I owe that to him. Bob's wisdom through tough times was equally valuable to his one-liners through happy times.
If Bob got vocal about something, you knew it was going to be GREAT! I could write a book about some of those moments. I am smiling as I type this.....
If you ever had an ailment you could always count on Bob for a free medical evaluation, although if it was orthopedic-related you had to be prepared for “Tell me…does this hurt?” (YOW!)
I loved listening to his stories of submarine days and medical school. I loved working on yard projects, stacking firewood, fishing and relaxing with him. I loved laughing with him. I loved his influence as a father-in-law as well as his influence as a grandfather to my girls. Bob sometimes shared things with me that I don’t think he shared with many, and that was very special. When I became divorced from his daughter, the loss of his direct friendship was a huge blow to me.
It was a privilege to know him and although he is gone, rest assured he is not forgotten.
Thanks for everything Bob. - love Lance
Our thoughts and prayers are with Lynne & family. Bob Brill was a great friend and will be missed by many. Sue and Tom Holcomb
